The Epidemic of Unhappy People
In
today's world, stress has led many Americans to depression and a constant state
of unhappiness. Over the years, scientists have studied and identified the
neurotransmitters of happiness and found exactly where it is located
in our brain. We now know that happiness is not an abstract emotion; it is a
literal psychological state that can be measured. It is very common these
days to find seminars on how to be happy and change the way you think. It
is not necessary to be depressed in order to attend these, but many experts
recommend it.
• Less than 30 percent of people report being deeply happy.
• Twenty-five percent of Americans and 27 percent of Europeans
claim they are depressed.
• The World Health Organization predicts that by 2010, depression
will be second only to heart disease in terms of the global burden of illness.
These facts are the real deal;
people are struggling to find their inner peace and well-being.
We each have a happiness set
point and no matter if the circumstances we encounter are negative or
positive, we tend to hover over the same set range. For instance, a study
on lottery winners was done and was noted that after a year of enjoying the new
lifestyle, they returned to their normal happiness set point. The only way to
change that is by making a serious effort to change it. The following are
stages that we can categorize ourselves in:
• Unhappy= depressed
• Happy for a bad reason= high from unhealthy reasons/addictions
• Happy for good reasons= being satisfied from healthy experiences
• Happy for no reason= inner state of peace (where
we want to be)
In order to be happy for no reason
at all, you must be able to bring happiness into situations
versus having to extract something out of situations. It is the art
of NOT needing postive things to happen to you because you can MAKE
positive things happen. A good quote that we can relate to comes
from Thoreau: "Things do not change; we change."
It is not as easy as saying, "O.K. today I am going to be happy from here
on out." No. We have to look at our habitual habits (which make up
90 percent of all habits) and figure out what it is in life that makes us
happy such as: exercising, taking up sports, learning how to play an instrument
or any new skill for that matter.
All of our habitual thoughts and
behaviors have created certain neural pathways in our brain. They can be
described as grooves (imagine a record) and the more we think and do these
things, the deeper the grooves become. This is exactly why it is impossible for
us to wake up one day and decide to be happy. We literally have to create new
pathways in our brain to outweigh these negative ones. I will cover how to do
so in future entries.
There are ways to become happy,
happier, and stay happy. We just have to look at the science of it and
understand what happiness truly is. I am excited to share all this great
information I have been studying over the past two years with you and hope I
can give some insight to anyone who may need to hear this!